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Old Oct 10, 2013, 12:02 PM
Anonymous33150
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Yes...my ex-T.

If so,
1- Did you find much?

Just a few things about his past, but more on his family.

2- Did you tell your therapist that you googled him/her?

Yes. We were talking about my transference and the subject came up, although I don't remember how now. I believe he asked me if I had looked him up.

3- Did you tell them what you came up with and how?

Yes...it was embarrassing because I thought his sister was his wife (she has not married so same last name)...feeling pretty stupid then! They have almost exactly the same first name too, however. Once I figured out who his wife was (both his wife and sister have photos on the Internet) I was surprised what she looked like.

4- How did they react?

He thought it was hysterical I made that mistake. Ha ha..not so much!
He was curious about me wanting to know more about him, and I said I was really more curious about what his wife looked like, which was true. He was cool overall and said it was something clients do and a reason he watches what he puts online...I agreed that made sense.

5- Do you have any regrets?

Yeah maybe being a little MORE thorough would have saved me from feeling so stupid.

Last edited by Anonymous33150; Oct 10, 2013 at 12:04 PM. Reason: addition
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