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Old Jan 04, 2007, 09:57 AM
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Mouse said:
I see how my mother had so many needs of her own that she didn't know how to just "be" with someone. She never taught me what a intimate relationship would be like. If she needed something then the person who could best provide that need for her would be the one she spent time with. If you had nothing for her, she had no use for you.

I am so sorry you went through that. I feel you are really on the path to healing because you have discerned this great truth. It's so insightful.

Hugs,

Jan
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