Hi Gloria, has your husband been to a doctor for a checkup lately? Sometimes this can be related to a medical or emotional condition. If not, get him for an appointment. If that is not the case, I would recomment Dr. Laura Schlenger's book "The Proper Feeding and Care of Husbands." This may be a flippant title, but many wives have found it to be helpful in repairing and reviving their relationship. It seems that if their husband is happy at home (non-addict & non-abusive) then the rest follows naturally.

The book is probably available in your local library or bookstore. Hope this helps.