((( tacoqueen ))) this was a very hard post for me to read, but I'm glad I did because at least I can reply and offer support for whatever that is worth.

I see a HUGE problem with the way normal, healthy sexuality is either mixed up with the idiotic idea that it is somehow inherently shameful, or the equally corrosive idea that it is a means to express power, control or status - and things get REALLY bad when these two concepts converge. Women and men alike suffer needlessly because of all these warped ideas about sexual expression.