Hello,

I am 22 year old male and have been dating my girlfriend for 2 years now. Overall we have a great relationship. Now at the beginning of our relationship she would always check my phone to make sure I wasn't flirting with other girls and what not, which I never did or do. This stopped about 2 months into dating.

I never had the tendency to spy on her or do anything of that sort but yesterday I got a little curious as to what she googles. I know her password because I've seen her type it many time before. So google has a web history with everything that you've searched while on your account. I went to this to see what she was looking up. Everything seemed normal except the last thing she looked up was a "military porn". I didn't think anything of it at first, because earlier she told me she was feeling horny and might masturbate later on. I guess I forgot to mention we live about 40 minutes away because we go to different colleges. Anyway I call her up and she told me that she got back from her self defense class. I ask her who was teaching this class and she said some guy how in the military. Well that raised a red flag in my mind.

I'm worried that she is thinking of about this man when she is pleasuring herself. Now that I connected two and two I feel really bad about spying on her like this and finding out what i did. I mean I know that she's not cheating, technically but it still hurts me that she could be thinking about him with her.

She the starts telling me about how I should take self defense because she's never see me try to "defend" because I've never been in that situation and knowing that I can protect her is a turn on. Which to me I am like great " she goes to a class that turns her on and has a military teacher that she look up military porn.

Wha do I do? Do I confront her and tell her that I snooped and potentially damage our otherwise wonderful relationship or brush it under the rug?

Please any I'd really like some advice right now.

Jagz