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Every day I google both T's to see what pops up.
One T has a Facebook account. You can find family on there and see if there is any good info on their pages. The other T does not have an account but I found news articles on him and his family and have found their Facebook pages. I have learned a lot about him from these articles....things he would never reveals.
I do not regret it.
I would never tell them.
It really helps ease the curiosity if you have a T that does zero disclosure.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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