I am in a very complicated and abusive relationship. I made the mistake of letting him move in with me. In the past he got drunk and physically assaulted me several times. He went to jail for that and a dui. His things are in my spare bedroom and legally I can't get them out. I made the mistake of having him legally evicted from the trailer park I live in. Later the manager assumed he was living with me and had me evicted. I told her he was not living with me which is true, he is living with a friend down the street. He is abusive verbally at times and is not at all what I want in my life. I need to get him out peacefully. He has a court date, and I don't want to see him go to jail again but I would like to see a way to get him out peacefully. If I ever call the cops again I will be evicted. In the past I have run out of my house screaming and no one helped me. No one wants to get involved. I was told the reason I was to be evicted was because I ran out of my house screaming. So if he ever physically assaulted me I could not ask for help. I don't want to live this way. I'd like to join Christian Mingle. I am 59. He is 41. I'd like to meet a decent Christian man who doesn't smoke or drink excessively my own age. I want some stability and peace in my life. I need him out of my life peacefully. I want his things out of my home too. I need to start a new life free from abuse and misery.