Yup. I'm constantly making myself anxious about how other people are perceiving me. Such a huge problem in my life. Causes so much unnecessary anxiety and subsequent depression. I'm working really hard to change my thinking patterns though

I know you're married (and your mother-in-law is living with you too, right?) Is there any way you can carve out some time for yourself? Even if you just have to get out of the house and be alone in public... like sitting at a coffee shop or going to get your nails done... doing something where you'll feel less under a microscope, so to speak.