1- Did you find much?
Mostly just professional web pages (his website, his entries in various therapy directories) and his Linked In profile. I saw another T in the summer while mine was away, googled her and found her Facebook page, which gave me a link to my T's Facebook page. Everything was on lockdown apart from one thing: a group for a hobby he does. So I inadvertently found out something he does in his spare time.
2- Did you tell your therapist that you googled him/her?
I did, yes. One day, we were talking about how old he was, he asked me to guess and I said I couldn't because I knew his rough age, having seen his LinkedIn profile and the years he was at school.
3- Did you tell them what you came up with and how?
See above. The one thing I haven't told him is that I can see the group for this hobby. I feel like it's a part of his life that shouldn't belong to me and I don't want to invade.
4- How did they react?
He didn't seem bothered.
5- Do you have any regrets?
None whatsoever.
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