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Originally Posted by hankster
Why are you not able to take no for an answer? Wouldn't you want the same favor granted to you? I would be careful if I were you, this could be construed as stalking. This person is not your mother. Your survival does not depend on him. You have evidence that he is alive and well (at least online), otherwise you would be contacting the authorities. You do not want to be contacted by the authorities on his behalf. Please contact a therapist asap, not this person again.  |
Because to me, ignoring me is not the same thing as "no". I'd be able to take no if he could just TELL me. And if someone who I was not interested in kept trying to contact me, I would straight up tell them no because nobody likes being ignored. I don't think it could really be called "stalking"...I've sent him several texts, but nothing excessive...Like between 10 and 12 in the past week, and maybe 5 messages online. It's not like I'm sending him multiple messages in the span of an hour. I haven't even been sending one every day. And I'm pretty much done contacting him now. Until he contacts me.
Edit: Okay so I just double checked and I've sent him 10 texts since last Thursday (when I asked him when I'd be able to see him). 4 of those were on the 5th (which is my birthday. I was particularly upset that he wasn't talking to me on that day).
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