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I have been in a relationship with him for 8 months, I should have known from the beginning that something was a bit off, but me being who I am, when someone ignores me or is "mean" to me that makes me just want them more.
We went to high school with each other, but only hung out a few times, ( I know now that he liked me and I liked him), It wasnt until our best friends started to see each other that we met again, sparks flew and we started hanging out, as a group. Then one day we started hanging out just the two of us. The first night we just talked and talked, I knew I still had a "crush" on him.
Since that day we have been "together" non-stop, but our relationship has been a rollarcoaster. Hes so sweet, telling me how pretty I am, and how much he loves me, then 5 min later I did something "wrong" and he cant do it anymore.
when he gets mad, it instantly is my fault, no matter if I did nothing at all, if a dog bit him it would be because I was walking to fast or some made up reason. He calls me names, and is really mean. But I still love him. After he calms down he dose appologise, but he dose not realize how much words do hurt. I have told him he needs help, but I feel he is reluctant.
Is it me?? am I too senestive, is this normal?? im so confused about what to do
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