Both my husband and I are still in weird spots but calm enough at times to seriously sit down and re-evaluate our houses safety, when, how and who calls/gets help. We have discovered that we are to loyal to each other to really voice our concerns, or recognize our concerns to our mental health team. How do we fix us not realizing when we are not in a good place and need help? Or when we have to call the other persons t/pdoc for them?