No, ignoring, isn't the same as saying no. It is painful, when those we have feelings for, up and disappear from our lives. Maybe, it's not the most ideal of scenarios. Common courtesy would have us, being upfront and honest. Yet, not everyone likes confrontation.
After, how much time, of being ignored, will you accept this is the way it is between the two of you, and start the grieving process that is part of moving on from any relationship?
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Originally Posted by bluedolphin92
Because to me, ignoring me is not the same thing as "no". I'd be able to take no if he could just TELL me. And if someone who I was not interested in kept trying to contact me, I would straight up tell them no because nobody likes being ignored. I don't think it could really be called "stalking"...I've sent him several texts, but nothing excessive...Like between 10 and 12 in the past week, and maybe 5 messages online. It's not like I'm sending him multiple messages in the span of an hour. I haven't even been sending one every day. And I'm pretty much done contacting him now. Until he contacts me.
Edit: Okay so I just double checked and I've sent him 10 texts since last Thursday (when I asked him when I'd be able to see him). 4 of those were on the 5th (which is my birthday. I was particularly upset that he wasn't talking to me on that day).
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