So within the last few days...

houseguest informs me on the day of arrival that he does not have his highschool - this obviously narrows down the job market a lot. So up went the stress-factor for me as that would mean it would take him longer to find a job and then a place that he could afford to live.

THEN on Thursday he informs me that he's actually just going to stay for a visit and head back to his sister's to get his highschool.

This completely changes the visit. Now he won't be getting a job, which means he WON'T be out of my flat at ALL... which I really needed... and if he was just going to come for a visit I would have said not quite yet as I agreed SUPER LAST MINUTE to this and I was in no way in the right head space for it... and I'm in an even worse headspace now... so I would have asked him to come later. Or to at least get his highschool first - if he had bothered to tell me that part. And then he might want to come back to look for work as he likes it here - I don't want to host someone twice for the same reason! I find sharing a 1-bedroom flat t obe incredibly stressful even if I was in a GOOD HEADSPACE.

:'(

And I have no idea how long he's going to stay and I don't feel stable enough to even ask