Don't despair,
Life is long continue to think about your future.
You are in control of your life and doing better than most.
Sometimes Parents of young Adults have/should negotiate not allowing freedom how is one to learn?
But if you live with your Parents you still have to respect some rules like in life.
At 25 you should be able to come and go as you please or if its going to be a late night call and say I'm okay and see you tomorrow.
Being a male it must be difficult with the ladies but no sex in parents house.
My daughter is your age and there were/are rules, she is now married.
In this economy living on your own is not a option you have to make the best of things as they are in a peaceful way. You should assert yourself but from a calm place, it is hard for Mothers to let go of their children, no matter how old they are.
Parents who dangle the purse strings in order to keep control is wrong imo, if they kid/adult is doing well let them become the person they are meant to be, even if it is not what we want them to be.
Hugs Alma
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Happiedasiy,
Selfworth growing in my garden
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