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Originally Posted by bluedolphin92
I mostly just want this to be a one time thing, since we couldn't do everything the last time we met. I just want to do it right, see him just this once, and then go back to just being good friends. That's all I want. But I can't tell him that because he won't talk to me at all.
It's just so hard to not contact him though. Even though I've started to get in the mindset that I'm just never going to get a response, it just gives me a tiny sense of relief to send him just one message.
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It sounds like you have a fantasy going on in your own head driving your behavior. That you get a sense of relief still sending him "one more" message every so often, sounds like a smoker wanting just one more cigarette before giving them up. You have to disengage from your fantasy before anything can/cannot happen with this guy.