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_Sky said:
Well it does take all kinds of doctors and counselors Is your counselor not a PROFESSIONAL one?

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His counselor is really pretty relaxed and open. She has even shared personal things about her own life, which I sometimes question. . .if those boundaries are OK.

Mine keeps it very professional at all times ane even if I try to joke about something and laugh it off. . .he doesn't let me off the hook there at all. He just looks at me very serious if it's not something that I should be joking about.

But he does laugh with me if it's something truly funny not something I'm trying to use humor to cover up.

The other thing was when I asked him yesterday about if he "liked me" or not. . . he wouldn't come out and say yes that he did. I think that crossed a boundary for him. He relayed it sort of in a round-about way stating that hopefully he could help me to see the things in myself that he could appreciate and not only because he's being paid to sit in the room with me.