Thread: How can you get someone to stop ignoring you without seeming desperate or clingy?
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Old Oct 12, 2013, 04:00 PM
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That's something I have struggled with, in the past. Staying too long. It's never easy to 'let go' of something that has been long term. Even platonically speaking, he didn't acknowledge your birthday . Personally, that's such a deal breaker. Wondering what it would be like, for just one time, if your emotions are already all over the place now, would you really be able to detach after a one time occasion?

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Originally Posted by bluedolphin92 View Post
It's hard to say, really. Honestly I'd already pretty much already accepted that a romantic relationship couldn't happen. I was hoping that we could meet again just for this one time and then go back to just being friends.

Now I'm not sure how to feel. I'm not about to just throw away a 7 year friendship because of this, even if he is. I don't know how much time I should give him.