The thing is, what are the chances that, of all the people here on pc who have feelings for their therapist - how is it that they all fell in love with their t? Wouldn't we get suspicious if we all said we all fell in love with our barista or our pharmacist? Why aren't we suspicious about so many of us falling in love with our ts? Doesn't that raise a red flag that there is something else going on besides this great coincidence of so many people just happening to find the right person - their therapist? This is not the lotto.