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Originally Posted by bunnylove45
I'll just speak for myself and not other posters who 'love' their therapist.
I don't love him. I don't even know any personal information about him. To really love him I would have to know him outside of therapy and know him personally. He keeps a tight reign on personal information, as he should.
What I do know is that I feel a chemistry, a connection, a jolt when I'm sitting across from him. It's not loving, warm feeling. It's a sexual vibe that is electrifying, making me weak in my knees.
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My first reaction was to say, well, carry on, then! I'm in over my head here! And to run away.
But seriously - I occasionally get what I call a "crotchy" feeling - when there has been a very understanding discussion between us about something. I will tell him I'm feeling that way, but then I usually do run away. He is always gentle and kind, but I don't know what to do with these feelings. Thank you for being so open about yours. Next time I will try to stay with mine longer. You have made an important distinction here.