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Old Oct 12, 2013, 06:19 PM
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Originally Posted by bunnylove45 View Post
I'll just speak for myself and not other posters who 'love' their therapist.
I don't love him. I don't even know any personal information about him. To really love him I would have to know him outside of therapy and know him personally. He keeps a tight reign on personal information, as he should.
What I do know is that I feel a chemistry, a connection, a jolt when I'm sitting across from him. It's not loving, warm feeling. It's a sexual vibe that is electrifying, making me weak in my knees.
My first reaction was to say, well, carry on, then! I'm in over my head here! And to run away.

But seriously - I occasionally get what I call a "crotchy" feeling - when there has been a very understanding discussion between us about something. I will tell him I'm feeling that way, but then I usually do run away. He is always gentle and kind, but I don't know what to do with these feelings. Thank you for being so open about yours. Next time I will try to stay with mine longer. You have made an important distinction here.