I've recently moved into a apartment and I have a roommate. I didn't meet her until the day I moved in and the place was a total mess. The next day I bought tons of cleaning products and cleaned up all her mess. I rather just clean it myself so that I could get it into the conditions that would be comfortable for me to live in. She saw how much I was scrubbing and washing the kitchen and bathroom counters and the times I vaccumed the living room.

How do I deal with her if she doesn't maintain the cleanliness of the apartment. I've never had a roommate before so I really dont know how to deal with such thing. She doesn't do her own dishes and its been sitting there for a week now. I am so tempted to was them myself but I'm holding myself back from that because I dont want to be taken advantage of.

How do I deal with such a room mate?