I really, really think this is so hurtful for you. I know this silent treatment. It is a manipulation. It is hurtful. It hurts right?

I know you need/want answers, but you can force them out of an unwilling person. He probably feels bad about the money, and his behavior.

I learned with my friend, when he went silent, (this was his favorite manipulation) I had to learn to go even more silent. Be busy. Not call. Not write. Just...wait. It killed me at first, but I did it. It got easier. And he always reached out in the end, Always. He's a guy. They get curious.

You know he isn't treating you fairly or well so, please try to give him some space, take some for yourself and get busy living. I know you are already, I am just reiterating what you already know.

I do understand. I think you need to be silent for a while with him. I'm sorry. It's just what I see...