Son brought home by police at 1am apparently under the influence and smelling of pot. Nice officer, not sure how to proceed. Really disappointed in my sons choices and that he lied to me about where he was. Grounding is inevitable plus careful monitoring. Feel I have failed actually worse than this Feel maybe it would be better if i disappear. Obviously i am a sh** mother. Tried to explain consequences of actions. Behaviour will have to regain trust. my head is spiralling and am on the edge of doing something stupid. but that wont help him so i must get over myself. Rules laid down very clearly. Love for son expressed. Was clear and concise in talking., aplogy from son was forth coming why do I want to hurt me?