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Originally Posted by Thorn Bird
HI! I bet all this must make you so mad - it sounds as if you are doing everything even making decisions etc. I don't know what work your husband is in and if at least he is securing a good income? But his apparent distance from you and the children must leave you feeling very alone and not part of a partnership. And on top of that you hear he is discussing you with the neighbours and telling them 'you are controlling' What sort of advice did you want or are you just venting - and I don't blame you for that!!
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Hi Thornbird, Thanks for replying. Not venting so much. Just exploring what I've lived through. I am looking back and trying to understand what I've survived. It's been a highly disturbing and emotionally damaging trainwreck. I barely made it out alive and my kids are all hugely damaged. I don't know what to do or how to begin to heal from it all. It's like I'm waking up from a huge drugged spell.
Yeah, I'm mad. You don't know the half of it. This man should have spent time in jail and lost his license to practice medicine as well. He is evil. He is a felon. I was in church this morning and in my notes I wrote what he told me years ago: "You can't have me arrested. You will lose the house and you won't be able to take care of the kids!" It was true to my mind, so I didn't have it done. But I still wish I would have had the guts to have done it. He deserved it.