It is difficult for a loved one deal with depressed loved on. I suffer from bipolar disorder, but when I'm depressed, I just need a shoulder to cry on. I don't wante to be pushed into doing something I don't want to do and rarely ever want go out. And sometimes I just want be left alone. It has nothing to do with how much I love person. I would like thoughtful texted. Like " thinking of you" "hope are feeling better" etc. Maybe card or flowers or whatever you think she might like. Wishing you the best.