Orgasming in other ways is not an issue and he is very enthusiastic.

There is something about the intimacy of intercourse and it makes me very sad to think that if this were to turn into a long-term committed relationship that this would be a piece that would be forever missing.

He's probably 5 inches or so and no thicker than a very fat thumb, maybe the width of your standard kitchen broom handle at best.

It's terrible and I really don't have anyone to discuss this with and could never talk to him about for fear of hurting his male ego but also his sense of self. Up to this point he believes he's been a fantastic lover. It sorta sucks that he also finishes in about 2 minutes flat ok I should be a little more fair, 5 minutes.

I'm trying so hard not to focus on the sex. I've had great sex and crappy relationships for most of my life. I really want to be in a great relationship and this could be one. But why does his little man have to be so, well... little?