Candybear, doing what is unfamiliar and uncomfortable is important and is expected in therapy. He won't be offended or angry or think less of you if you mention that call he took.

When my T cancelled a weekly visit last month, I was devastated and cried all day. She was sick! I knew that in my mind but I still felt what I felt. That is what therapy is about... getting to what it is we're feeling. Anyway, I never thought I could say anything about it to her, but I did. I said, you know, I'm embarrassed to say this,,, but I took your cancellation personally. She was surprised and we talked about it and she made me feel soooo much better. She thanked me for telling her. I was so glad I took the risk!

I hope you'll think about mentioning it to him in some way. I think it will make you feel much better about yourself and yoru new T. It's already so hard getting started with someone new, then to have that happen... wasn't good. Please consider telling him how you felt?

((HUGS))

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