They do not have the right to report homicidal *thoughts*. They must actually believe you have a plan and will carry it out.

Dare, I'm so sorry this is all happening to you. I had a T who mistook a homicidal/suicidal FANTASY for a plan (I did not discuss a plan with him) and reported me. Next thing I know, he terminated me, but gave us a month for termination. That I continued to see him after what he did shows what I would do to avoid abandonment. I used that time to convince him to take me back, even after such a huge betrayal. (he even called the other person and told them they were in danger -- now I no longer have a relationship with that person because they are afraid of me.)

Now I avoid abandonment by avoiding all people and keeping to myself. It is excruciatingly lonely and I sometimes wonder about my hold on reality, being alone so much. I no longer even have a T because I cannot possibly take another chance on such a relationship.