My boyfriend and I have been in a committed relationship for about 10 months now. We have a healthy relationship. We communicate and we respect each other to the fullest.

I think I've been having a problem with myself lately - I'm not always in the mood to have sex when my boyfriend is. However to be honest, he is in the mood almost every time we are together in bed and more. So yes, he probably has a very high sex drive...but compared to him, I might not have such a high one. There are many times when I am in the mood though. I just feel like there is something wrong and I feel bad when I reject him a lot when he wants it. We talked about it the other day and I told him that I don't know why I'm not in the mood a lot, but its definitely not because of him. He turns me on and the sex is good.

I'm 22 years old and my boyfriend is the second man I've ever had intercourse with, so I guess I am still inexperienced. I'm just worried that there is something wrong or abnormal with me because I don't want it as much as he does. To be honest if I had to spend my whole life without having it, I could definitely do it.

I was wondering if anyone else has ever experienced this or something similar to this? Also, is it really an issue that I should look into further?

Thanks guys.