yesterday while driving in the car with my husband I asked him to slow down and he didnt like that and let me know. I didnt respond to his tirade and then his mobile phone rang. He let go of the wheel to find it and the car started to veer towards the edge of the road and I reacted by saying jesus and you arent meant to answer your phone while driving. He took the call and when it was finished he shouted a tirade at me saying we werent in danger etc etc. When we got home I got out and slammed the car door and he started yelling at me in the garden saying how dare i slam the door and that i have a cheek. i said how dare he put my life at risk and then (it was 7pm) I went to bed. I cant stop crying and although I went to work I dont feel like going into work any more or living with him any more, its already a struggle but I feel too old to take the aggressive abuse and that I always let him away with it (although its not as frequent any more, like its 6 months since the last time). Any advice would be most welcome. Im in work but cant stop crying which is very embarrasing