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Old Oct 14, 2013, 05:05 AM
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Hey...pls don't cry . I guess we are very fuzzy on details.

I just want to say, MAYBE, that wasn't a sexual assault....let's consider it that way for sometime. But even then, is it right for a guy to ask for favors in return for "care" provided? If someone saves your life tomorrow and in return asks for 1 million dollars....would that be right on his part?

Good people do things without expecting anything in return.

His asking for favors is not right. You don't owe him anything. However, if you do feel like you owe him....help him back when he really, really needs it....like he's sick in hospital.

Right now, you need to cut him off contact. And let time heal. At the same time, you also have to try to move away from that incident.

Be as far as you can from this guy. Cut away the thought that he has a control over you. Only you have control over yourself.

Good luck!