I am a male, and it was my dad that "molested" (is that a strong enough descriptive word?) me, I am now 51, and my dad is still alive. my mother knew about it, and turned a blind eye. (that was only half of her betrayal) so you guys can imagine how I feel. I asked him about it, and he admitted to having been molested by a female when he was young and that he "enjoyed the he** out of it" (without batting an eye, as if he was proud of it.) when I asked him why he thought I might enjoy it, he changed the subject very quickly. never was I answered.