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Originally Posted by rigaschuckler
What is the reason between physical superiority? Suppose X is a guy with a normal height and being bullied by Y, who is much taller and strong. One thing x can do is to report the authorities that I also know. But what about inflicting mental pain? Suppose y won’t harm physically much, but would just grab the skinny hands of y and look in a threatening way. So how would a person counter attack in that matter? For example X was constantly bullied by Y at the high school and then they parted. Then one day Y sent an abusive mail to X, even though X didn’t do any harm. Suppose one day, only by coincidence both of them had to meet somewhere, be it a mall or a train station. How should X confront Y with confidence? Ignoring is okay but if he grabs your hand and obstructs?
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around here in NY (which is in the USA as opposed to other NY's) its called learning how to say/yell ....no. and if the person persists theres a court process called getting a restraining order (protection order) this is a paper that allows the police to arrest the abuser any time the abuser goes against the restraining order...
example if the restraining order is about being in close proximity to the victim and the abuser shows up and doesnt stay for example 500 feet away from the victim, the victim calls the police, the police arrest the abuser.
if the restraining order says the abuser can not write, email, talk to the victim and they send a letter, email or call them or shout out to them the victim calls the police, the police arrests the abuser.
as for confrontations well thats individualized based on what the victim needs are. some invite their abusers to their therapy sessions for a confrontation others write a confrontational letter and there are many other ways a person confronts their abuser. I know someone who sent flowers with a card that said leave me alone my next call wont be for flowers it will be for the police. he persisted. she went to the police station and filed a report, went to court got the restraining order and the next time the guy showed up she had a neighbor keep him busy while she called the cops. he's now in jail.