Hey Technigal,
I am sorry you are dealing with more stress. I hope things get better sooner than later.
I will be simple.
Near the end of your post,
you said, "
But I am the unreasonable one for getting mad!!"
I will say this - you are entitled to your own feelings. You have every right to be upset. You are allowed to be angry. If your husband takes that away from you - he is invalidating your feelings - and thus, he is not respecting you. In order for things to work - both of you need to validate one another's feelings - because there is a genuine reason why you're feeling in the first place.
The only thing I will caution you on is: be careful how you react to your anger and frustration. It's easy to explode. (As every human knows)

Thanks,
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