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Originally Posted by GeorgiaGirl413
actually you can't really diagnose Aspergers in an adult. Can you all go to counseling together?
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true although they are basing it on things recorded from his childhood and then with our son. The two are very much alike.
We will be going to counseling soon. We were just waiting for benefits to kick in at his work, they have now.
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Originally Posted by HD7970GHZ
I will say this - you are entitled to your own feelings. You have every right to be upset. You are allowed to be angry. If your husband takes that away from you - he is invalidating your feelings - and thus, he is not respecting you. In order for things to work - both of you need to validate one another's feelings - because there is a genuine reason why you're feeling in the first place. 
The only thing I will caution you on is: be careful how you react to your anger and frustration. It's easy to explode. (As every human knows)  |
I explode way too easily but he also knows how to make me explode, he knows all the words that hurt the deepest. He pulled the BPD card and walked away. Now he is acting like nothing happened...
At least our Thanksgiving supper turned out great.