amyhsa
Welcome to the forum, glad you found us.
I'm sure it would be hard to be away from one you love. And I'm sorry that things are this way for you, right now.
But, I think that its a good thing he is getting help, and is aware that he does in fact, need it. Therapists he sees are advising him, and it is their opinion he might need an extended stay. They may be right, and that once he has gotten sufficient help, the loving man will be around
alot more than the angry one. With you going to see him, being there for him in his time of need...I honestly don't think you are losing each other, and that when you are together again, it will make your relationship stronger. Having gone through so much, and coming out of it together.
Again, welcome, and posting here to find people to listen/understand/and talk to will help you alot, I think.
<font color=purple>Pain can indeed be a beautiful thing</font color=purple>