The reason my Mom is involved is because my sister went straight from my mothers care to her husbands, she was married at 17. I always get involved because they rely on my truth and wisdom. Umlike my mom and sister I don't encourage them to do what I would benefit from myself. I told my sister last night that what I thought she did was very wrong and that she was selfish. She got butt hurt and hung up on me,but this morning she called and agreed that her behavior was not considering her son or husband. I think ultimately her husbands dumb enough to take her back. So it's all good, baby Elijah will be well taken care of with Ricki (my sisters husband) involved. I just hope they can both grow up soon.