You are probably not going to like my post, but here it is. You need to leave this guy. He has proved he is not willing change. And is there you when you need him to be. Cut you loses and get away as soon as I can.
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Bipolar I, Depression, GAD Meds: Zoloft, Zyprexa, Ritalin
"Each morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most." -Buddha