Thread: no one likes me
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Old Oct 15, 2013, 10:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Sadley View Post
I've been told over and over, "you're a nice guy". I've learned that I am too nice, and people don't want to be around that. But I can't not be nice, I just don't know how to be what people want. I have no friends at all. Never really had any. Feel so alone. I'm 24 years old but I feel like my life is already as good as over.
If I might nose in on your life for a moment, you're too hung up on what people think of you. Why would you feel like life is over because of other people's opinion of you? You need some self assurance. You are what/who you are, you're going to be nice, and if people don't like it they can lump it, you don't need to be a chameleon to please them.

Regardless of anyone else's opinion of you, there is still life to live - discoveries to make, food to enjoy, the four seasons to marvel at, etc. you don't need anyone's approval to appreciate these things. At 24 - your life is just beginning.