Thanks Wolf... I understand that I should let her know sooner than later, but I have a huge fear to overcome... and I know that time heals all wounds, and I can move on and be ok for the most part, but I have no desire to watch such a great relationship fall apart because of diapers...

I know this may not be a very good conversation piece... and I posted this twice, once in the Relationship thread, because I forgot that since I'm new, my posts dont show up right away... for some reason I thought it didn't take... lol
I apologize for that.