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Old Oct 16, 2013, 09:59 AM
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Hi everyone!

I'm currently going to school and studying behavioral/mental health and counseling. I'm not really sure what profession I want, but I do know I want to work in the behavioral/mental health field.

I was just wondering what characteristics make a helpful counselor/helper/practitioner? What skills or what qualities make clients/consumers/participants/individuals (I apologize if any of these terms offend anyone) open up?

It would be very beneficial to know how I can encourage the therapeutic relationship and help an individual. And I would love to hear any advice or experiences with a professional (if you would like to share).

I sincerely appreciate any and all feedback. I'm excited to talk to you all!

I think not only compassion and empathy are very important. But another essential thing is boundaries. Hugs and such, I like. But there's a big difference in showing that you care and going too far. I had to stop seeing one therp because, although she cared about me very much, she had no boundaries. I still care about her, but would have never gone back to her. My therp now is very empathetic, kind and helpful. She has helped me tremendously so far. Good luck.
Thanks for this!
studentuser