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Originally Posted by studentuser
Hi everyone!
I'm currently going to school and studying behavioral/mental health and counseling. I'm not really sure what profession I want, but I do know I want to work in the behavioral/mental health field.
I was just wondering what characteristics make a helpful counselor/helper/practitioner? What skills or what qualities make clients/consumers/participants/individuals (I apologize if any of these terms offend anyone) open up?
It would be very beneficial to know how I can encourage the therapeutic relationship and help an individual. And I would love to hear any advice or experiences with a professional (if you would like to share).
I sincerely appreciate any and all feedback. I'm excited to talk to you all! 
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I think not only compassion and empathy are very important. But another essential thing is boundaries. Hugs and such, I like. But there's a big difference in showing that you care and going too far. I had to stop seeing one therp because, although she cared about me very much, she had no boundaries. I still care about her, but would have never gone back to her. My therp now is very empathetic, kind and helpful. She has helped me tremendously so far. Good luck.