im agoraphobic and I get the same feeling about getting into the shower as I do about going to the store. I dread it. im now down to showering once a week. fortunately I don't sweat so I don't stink. I do wipe myself up with baby wipes and a wash cloth during the week and use dry shampoo on my hair if it gets to looking bad. I just cant bring myself to get in that shower. it is just too much effort. I am glad to see I am not the only one. I brought it up to t once and he insinuated that I was lazy.