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Originally Posted by RomanSunburn
My thinking along the lines of being taken care of versus taking care of everyone else.. well, it can get exhausting! Trying to take care of everyone and their brother and solving all the problems in the whole world. Maybe it's just a subconscious breather, a moment to relax, and not feel pressured, by yourself or anyone else, to take care of everyone. Almost like a safe spot to be yourself or a security blanket of sorts? This is clearly just a guess on my part, and since I don't really know you, I could be way off base, especially since you yourself don't think that that's what it is.
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Hmm... I've never really looked at it like that... I mean, yeah I've always kind of related diapers as a bit of a security blanket, but I never really made the conscious thought of it being a bit of a way of taking care and comforting myself...
I might check out the other subforum you recommended at a later time... I'll be working the next few days, so I'll jut have enough time to make replies here if this goes any farther...
Didn't think of making a subject just on my fetish alone... I do realize I need to cope better and understand my desires a bit more, but I was more concerned about whether or not it's wise to tell my girlfriend, with the idea that I wont break this anytime soon, if at all... LOL
Thanks for being as supportive and helpful as you have. It's nice to talk to someone with no understanding of my fetish without them making me feel 2 inches tall...