Thanks, both of you. I was thinking that I should go first by myself, so what you said affirms that. Part of the problem is that I'm frustrated with my dad (for several reasons - one being that he just got remarried, and it's too soon!) so I don't want him to "take" my first time going by going with me! So going first alone is a good idea, I think. I need to get over the mind block I have at some point, anyway.