He can get very persistent and he has done things like making veiled threats to kill himself if he can't find any help. Sometimes, when I have told him to leave me alone, he has called and texted me as much as twenty or thirty times in a couple of hours. He'll even show up at my house when I won't answer his calls. When he gets frustrated he paces and occasional hits himself. One might think is psychotic to see him at those times.

I would like to be able to refer him to some agency that can help him. But, it's hard to find something. He might fall under mental health because he is kind of self destructive. I know he has a disease, H-C , that makes him sick every so often and even lands him in the hospital. Right now, he has absolutely no money and no place to live. He is staying in his van and it is getting cold out. He is trying to work at temp jobs. But, when his van breaks, he loses the jobs. I am just overwhelmed and he is determine to stick like a leach because he says I am the only person who will help him.