I have been in a relationship for 3 years and the past year has been extremely challenging. How do you know when enough is enough? I feel like he's left everything up to me as far as initiating sex and intimacy because he wants me to show him that it's just as important to me as it is to him, finances because I've lost my job so he needs me to handle this and kids, he doesn't want the added stress of the household while he's trying to make ends meet and pay bills. I respect that but what happened to partnership?