The deal was he was to come here and look for work. If he just asked to come and visit... I would have said no. I'm not in a good head space and didn't want visitors. But I know what the job market is like where he lives so I decided that I could help him out for a bit.

He's got his ticket out - next Wednesday night.

I just don't like feeling lied to and manipulated. It hink he didn't make up his mind until when he was arriving here... but he should have at least told me what he was thinking before booking his tickets because I would have said to stay there until he knew for sure!

But telling him any of this? It won't solve anything and will just make him feel bad.

Today was the first day where he was STILL awake when I woke up in the morning. I was so shocked that I didn't even know how to respond. It wasn't that he was in the way of anything I was doing... but it's quiet and I don't like it when someone can hear everything I am doing.

And he did, in fact, finally do some of his dishes. Which was good. Because they sure weren't any of my dishes as I have not been eating at home!