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Originally Posted by Nerak67
I totally ruined my relationship with my old t by becoming too needy. I swore I wasn't going to do it with my new t but here I go again. He really liked kee and told me how awesome I was told work with and now I've gone and blown it by becoming psycho again. I hate myself.
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Hang on a second here... This is the whole point of having a T (versus a friend or something) is that you get to be psycho (short of intimidation or violence etc) and you get to be needy. You get to be awesome and likeable and childlike, sad, lonely and in pain. All of you is welcome. You shouldn't have to feel like you've blown it just because you've revealed a side of yourself that you for unattractive. If you can never reveal that part of you to your T, what's the point?