HERMIT, What u wrote was absolutely NOT pushy, it was honest. And that is what I like about you. I hope he never brings it up again. I most likely will not tell him not to bring it up again. That would make me no better then him. I'm not better then him, but I don't want to place the same demands on him that he places on me. I know how bad that feels. I do not ever want to be like him in that regard. I have been forbidden to mention things to others before by him and it stinks and is a dirty game to play.

In a perfect world though what a nice option that would be.