My previous T would give me assignments - this started in the last 6 months of Therapy. She started out getting slightly annoyed if i came in with a more pressing issue - then as time progressed she came down on me like a ton of bricks - like "you're not being consistent" - the first 3 years it was talk about anything that you want - it didn't change until she went "holastic" and wanted me to learn about crystal healing and the medicine wheel and such.

I am with a new T right now - only about 3 weeks and I just can't seem to stop talking - I feel like at some point he's going to say "hey how about some structure here - how about some goals" but he hasn't so far.

I guess my life feels so mixed up that being able to talk to someone seems like such a relief. But according to my friends I have a hard time being quiet anyway.LOL